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Starting something new is difficult - you don't have to be great at your first try

Starting something new can be daunting, right? We've all been there.

The moment we decide to tackle a long-awaited goal, distractions suddenly appear, or we become incredibly productive in unrelated tasks.

This avoidance is often driven by fear of the unknown and the challenge of overcoming inertia.

I have done my fair share of starting something new. Writing this newsletter, creating a podcast, being a cat parent and learning tennis. The list goes on…

Here are the lessons I've learned along the way:

  • Aim to Start, Not for Perfection: The biggest hurdle is often that first step. Instead of aiming for perfection right off the bat, focus on simply starting. Progress, no matter how small, is still progress.

  • Let Go of Ego: Understand that mistakes and imperfections are part of the journey. They are valuable learning experiences that help you grow and improve. Allow yourself to embrace these imperfections without the fear of judgment or failure.

  • Do It with Someone: Sharing your journey with a spouse, friend or a mentor can make the process less intimidating and more enjoyable. Having someone to bounce ideas off of, share your struggles with, and celebrate successes can keep you going.

Finally, embrace the beginner's mindset

This is also known as "Shoshin" in Zen Buddhism. It is an approach that encourages openness and a lack of preconceptions when learning or experiencing something new.

It involves putting aside the expectation of expertise and focus on seeing situations with fresh eyes and curiosity. This can help you look for opportunities for growth and release the pressure of being great.

If you are are still thinking how to start, Elyse Myers has an incredible tip on she deals with writing on a blank page.

Take a look, you are in for a laugh.

Stay Courageous,

Joping

Joping is a Certified Self-Leadership Coach and a solopreneur in the making. She writes about everything in between intention and action, and believe courage makes the biggest difference.